Some good information in regards to mothers working, childcare and family life with children
- The less affluent and educated you are, the more likely you are to divorce
- The more debt you have, and the more day-to-day worries about money, the less likely you are to describe yourself as “very happy” in your marriage (I recognize that this is not a surprising statistic). If you’d prefer to work “part time” but find yourself instead working “full time,” then women, especially, are significantly more likely to be unhappy with their marriage (and presumably with life in general).
- Both men and women want flexibility in the workplace to support our family lives
- United States, in 2008, 49 percent of employed men with families reported experiencing work-family conflict (up from 34 percent in 1977).
- workplace flexibility is just as important to the job satisfaction of low-wage employees as it is to high earners, and just as feasible, albeit in different ways.
- “culture of flexibility appears to be stagnating,” with little growth and fears among employees that taking advantage of flexibility that’s offered will interfere with their employment.
- In the absence of workplace flexibility, the one way to guarantee that a job will allow you to meet the demands of family life is simple: work fewer hours.
- issues of available, affordable child care, health care, safe housing and even healthy school meal programs.
- With those things, the need for shorter hours wanes.
- Of parents who want to work, do more moms than dads really want to work part time? Or have women just accepted a reality that working fewer hours in the absence of true workplace flexibility for both parents is more conducive to a smooth family life? Would fewer work hours make you happier, or is it the flexibility of the hours that counts?
A good article in relation to some very interesting facts in figures to this generation of working parents and working families and how little time families get to spend together and the resulting factors it could have on their children.
- A typical working parent spends just 19 minutes a day looking after their children
- impact that working full-time has on children who hardly see their parents.
- With less than 20 minutes spent with their parents every day, this is only enough time to eat a quick breakfast together or have a couple of bed-time stories.
- The Office for National Statistics looked at nearly 4,950 people over the age of 16 in Britain to find out what they do all day.
Parents who work full-time spend just 19 minutes every day caring for [their] own children, A further 16 minutes is spent looking after their children as a “secondary activity”, but this means that they are doing something else – such as the weekly supermarket shop – at the same time.
- The findings come at a time when record numbers of women are working as huge mortgages and soaring household bills force them to earn a living.
- Official figures show that 12.6million women have a job, compared to just 8.5million in the 1970s. The ONS looked specifically at working women in Britain and what they do during a typical 24-hour period to create a typical “Diary of a Working Mum”.
- They sleep less and work more than any other “type” of woman – and still have to do about two-and-a-half hours “domestic work” every day, it reveals. A typical working woman gets nearly 40 minutes less sleep every night than a full-time mother who gets more than nine hours sleep every night.
- This is because she gets up earlier to travel into work every day, or spends time every night doing a long list of domestic chores before going to bed. On average, a working woman toils at work for over five hours a day, although this figure appears low because it includes holidays and weekends when no work is done.
- Recent research showed that most mothers with young families would prefer to stay at home and look after their children. A survey of working mothers found that just six per cent wanted to work full-time, according to Prima magazine.
- Half wanted to combine bringing up their children with a part-time job, while more than a quarter wanted to be a full-time mother. They were asked: “In an ideal world, what would you like to be?” Twenty- six per cent said they wanted to be a “housewife and mother”. The most popular response, given by 50 per cent, was to be a “mum who works part-time”.
- The new ONS survey shows that life is also extremely tough for fathers with young families, particularly those whose youngest children is under the age of four.
- They sleep less, works more and do more “domestic” work than any other “type” of man, such as one with older children or one with no children. A typical father whose youngest child is under four gets less than eight hours sleep a night and does more than three hours of domestic chores every day.
- They are also working more than one hour a day longer than their male colleagues who do not have children.Overall, the ONS found that a typical person’s 24-hours is mostly spent
sleeping, working and watching television, which are the top three activities.
- A woman will spend 8.3 hours asleep, 2.4 hours watching television, DVDs or videos and 2.2 hours working. A man will spend eight hours alseep, 2.8 hours watching television, DVDs or
videos and 3.5 hours working. Just 24 minutes in 24 hours is spent reading, a figure which drops to just 10 minutes for younger people.
An article in relation to how children can find it very stressful when they first start nursery after being at home with their parents full time to being left at a nursery. Many find it quite difficult to adapt and change. As such this article suggests, firstly easing them in to this transition by slowing introducing them to nursery, secondarily giving the child a lot of love attention when then get home
- Study finds hormone level soars when daycare starts
- Extra time with parents needed to help calm down
- Toddlers starting at nursery after being at home since birth experience high levels of stress in the first weeks after separating from their mothers, and are still showing “chronic mild stress” as long as five months after their first day in the new environment
- In a further insight into the way young children react to daycare – an increasingly common experience for UK toddlers as more and more mothers return to the workplace – a related study also reveals that children at nursery do not see a drop in cortisol levels over the day as they would at home
- need extra time and attention at the end of the day to help bring them back to “emotional equilibrium” ready for the next day at nursery.
- Without that comfort from a parent, the children start the following day “hyper-aroused”, which can lead to behaviour problems or disobedience.
- The findings do not mean that daycare is bad for children, and there is no evidence yet of long-term effects of raised cortisol levels, according to co-author Michael Lamb of Cambridge University.
- UK’s childcare provision, the majority of youngsters now spend at least part of their pre-school years in some form of childcare.
- In March this year, there were 518,000 full daycare places in England, generally in nurseries, according to the inspectorate Ofsted, with the number of children using them even higher because some places are part-time. Childminders provide 316,000 more places, and playgroups, after-school clubs and crèches bring the total registered places for under-eights up to 1,468,300.
- full-time regular childcare place for every four children under eight, compared with one for every nine when Labour came to power in 1997, and the government plans further expansion under its 10-year childcare strategy launched last December.
- high levels of group-based care can have damaging effects on some aspects of emotional and psychological development for children under two.
- One way of controlling the build-up of stress, is quite simply to minimise the time children spend in care each day
- Psychologist Oliver James, author of “They F*** You Up”, said while having time with children at the end of the day was better than nothing, much better would be to organise our society in such a way so that women genuinely feel valued and have status higher than that of street cleaners if they do want to look after their children”.
- Nurseries are for children under five years old to learn, play and have fun in groups while their parents work or study or are busy elsewhere.
- Most Nurseries are registered with their local authority and inspected each year. They are usually open all day for most weeks in the year
- Nurseries are run by a team of staff and activities should be planned to help children enjoy learning
- At Nursery children can enjoy making friends, playing outside, sharing meals and trying out new skills.
- Plus points for Nurseries
- Opportunities for children to learn and play with friends
- Usually geared to the needs of children with working parents
- Some Nurseries offer free, part-time early education places for children aged three and four.
What are the different types of Nursery?
- Private Nursery – geared for working parents and the type you are most likely to find in your area
- Local authority Nursery – run by the local authority for children in the local community
- Community Nursery – a non-profit Nursery run for children in the local community
- Workplace Nursery – some employers run childcare schemes for children of their employees
How many children will there be in a Nursery?
- Most Nurseries provide places for between 26 and 40 children although some are smaller and others larger.
- Children are usually divided into much smaller groups based on their age.
What age range are the children in a Nursery?
- Nurseries are for children aged up to five.
- Some nurseries have places for babies and toddlers as well as for children aged three to five.
- some Nurseries are part of childcare schemes, which also provide childcare for older children.
When are Nurseries open?
- Most nurseries open at around 8.30am and close at around 6pm
- Some offer different hours for the children of people working shifts
- Most nurseries are open all year round except for public holidays.
How much does a Nursery cost?
- Nursery charges vary in different areas
- Expect to pay between £80 and £180 per child per week.